the Escort Safety System
Structured, empowering and stigma-free.
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Lesson 1.1: Why Safety Starts Before the Booking
“Safety cues don’t begin when you walk through the door.”
“Safety cues don’t begin when you walk through the door.”
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Lesson 1.2: Requesting ID & Deposits with Confidence
“…you’ve already learned everything you need to know.”
“…you’ve already learned everything you need to know.”
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Lesson 1.3: From "Will I Lose Them?" to "Do They Deserve Me?"
“Sometimes… that flicker of doubt creeps in.”
“Sometimes… that flicker of doubt creeps in.”
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Lesson 2.1: How The Respect Read Works
“The Respect Read is a practical screening framework designed to bring clarity, calm, and consistency to one of the most critical safety skills you’ll develop: deciding who gets access to you.”
“The Respect Read is a practical screening framework designed to bring clarity, calm, and consistency to one of the most critical safety skills you’ll develop: deciding who gets access to you.”
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Lesson 2.2: Green, Yellow and Red Signals
“Before you can begin scoring in real scenarios, you need to understand the kinds of behaviours those signals represent.”
“Before you can begin scoring in real scenarios, you need to understand the kinds of behaviours those signals represent.”
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“Now for the fun part.”
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Lesson 2.4: When They Don't Add Up
“Now that you’ve learned how to use the Respect Read, let’s talk about what happens when things don’t add up.”
“Now that you’ve learned how to use the Respect Read, let’s talk about what happens when things don’t add up.”
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Lesson 3.1: Your Trusted Contact System
“It’s like wearing an invisible seatbelt. You hope you won’t need it, but if something goes wrong, it can save your life.”
“It’s like wearing an invisible seatbelt. You hope you won’t need it, but if something goes wrong, it can save your life.”
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Lesson 3.2: Digital Safety That Blends In
“When doing this work, in this age, digital hygiene is essential.”
“When doing this work, in this age, digital hygiene is essential.”
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“Safety doesn’t just mean physical protection.”
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Lesson 3.4: Worst-Case Protocols Without Panic
“Most bookings go smoothly. But we plan for the worst so we can relax into the best.”
“Most bookings go smoothly. But we plan for the worst so we can relax into the best.”
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Lesson 4.1: Defining Boundaries & Consent
“…many of us only discover our limits when they’re already being crossed.”
“…many of us only discover our limits when they’re already being crossed.”
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Lesson 4.2: What to Say When Lines Are Crossed
“…that break in the flow of conversation or play brings the power back to you as long as you remain calm.”
“…that break in the flow of conversation or play brings the power back to you as long as you remain calm.”
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Lesson 4.3: How to End a Booking Early Without Apology
“Sometimes, the most radical act of self-respect is walking away.”
“Sometimes, the most radical act of self-respect is walking away.”
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The standard of safety our industry needs.
